Saturday, September 26, 2009

Mashonda vs. Alicia . . . all on Twitter

You know about the love triangle drama that consisted of Swizz Beats, his wife Mashonda, and our favorite R'n'B crooner, Alicia Keys. So, finally, Mashonda is saying something about it. But not to us, but to Alicia!

She posted this twitter message to Alicia to get some answers, and she said she will be posting it everyday until Alicia answers. Let us have a looksee!

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I met AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. (I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying "why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken." Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, that's false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.

I'm not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesn't exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now.

This is not a publicity stunt, I don't have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but he's afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people,” this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I don't consider myself a victim anymore, I've learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If it's so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. There's a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot. Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

People say that Mashonda should not be blasting out on Alicia in such a way, and that it's about high time us women stop trying to catch beef with the 'Other Woman'. But, think about it. If the 'Other Woman' knows that the man is in a marriage, why is she engaging herself in such riff raff that can lead to drama?! I love Alicia's music and all, but really. The 'Other Woman' thing comes along when that woman didn't have a clue. But when she did know and she continuess? She has some explaining to do, too. That's not cool whatsoever. So I give a big applause to Mashonda for being mature about this.

Friday, September 25, 2009

Apparently Matthew McConaughey Can't Stand Up Straight . . .

It's something that has been circling the internet for quite some time. People have noticed that Matthew has a problem standing up in his movie posters! Huh! How 'bout that?

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Trina . . . and GaGa? Working . . . TOGETHER?! Oh snap.

Yes indeedy. Trina has a new song coming out and it features our favorite hermaphodite, Lady Gaga (God, I love her). The songs sounds completely arrogant. JUST WHAT THE DOCTOR ORDERED! More music to make us think we're the ishness.

Miley Cyrus's "Party in the USA" Video.

Why . . . why why why is this song so catchy?!

Dudes, I just totally forgot that Miley Cyrus used to be Hannah Montana. That's a good sign for her. She finally got what she wanted.

Thursday, September 17, 2009

Tamia, Kelly Price & Deborah Cox to create: TDK

In the spirit of 90’s R&B trio LSG – Gerald Levert, Keith Sweat and Johnny Gill – BV Buzz has learned exclusively that three R&B divas have formed a new group with the working name of TDK.

Singers Tamia, Deborah Cox and Kelly Price have united for an upcoming compilation project called ‘The Queen Project.’

Led by the first single, ‘Queen,’ the three vocal powerhouses are elated about the opportunity to form this sisterhood in song.

“Truly I am excited because what we’re doing has never been done before with three women on CD,” Price told BV Buzz. “Each of us in our own right is a true vocalist and while I am loving what we’re doing in the studio, I just can’t wait for people to see our live show!”

Though each of the ladies knew each other prior to this endeavor, it is their first time collaborating together on music in any capacity.

“I’m so excited to work with these ladies because I’m a fan first,” Tamia offered. “It is fun and we have a really good time together. There’s something special here musically and we have a genuine bond.”

Cox added: “I feel the same way. It’s really the most exciting project I’ve been a part of. We’re going to be raising the bar just a tad. It’s great to work with like-minded individuals. We have the same sentiments as singers, mothers and wives!”

Producer Shep Crawford (Whitney Houston/Heather Headley) was the mastermind behind the group and said his vision was to just bring three dynamic women together to sing.

“My goal was to highlight the amazing talents individually, while blending them together to unite for this mega project. This is a unique union that will provide the music you have come to expect from these three superstars,” said Crawford.

TDK is currently in Los Angeles recording songs with Crawford and producer Warryn Campbell (Mary Mary/Kanye West). They are slated to also record material with Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds, R. Kelly and Raphael Saadiq as well.

‘The Queen Project’ is scheduled to be released in early 2010; however no record company affiliation has been announced at this time.


I know, it's crazy. You haven't heard from these three amazing songstresses in such a long time, and now they come back but not solo. AS A GROUP?! Are you kidding me? That's pretty colossal, if you ask me. I love Tamia, I adored Kelly (WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?!) as a youngster, and I did have a heart for Deborah.

They're going to be produced by the hottest R&B producers out there, like R.Kelly, Babyface, Raphael Saadiq (AHH! Girl shriek! Love him!), Warryn Cambell, and mostly Shep Crawford.

This really should be interesting, don't you concur?

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Kanye Gets Emotional on Jay Leno: VIDEO INSIDE!

So Kanye shitted on Taylor. He later apologized. And then apologized again. And so when he, Jay-Z & Rihanna were scheduled to perform on Jay Leno, Kanye had asked if he could speak with him for a moment on air. Jay Leno accepted. Watch.

Friday, September 11, 2009

Keri Hilson's "Slow Dance" Vid (-_-)

OK. This post is going to be very blunt because I'm not in the happiest of moods and I am so exhausted and hungry, I might go HULK and call it a night by wailing on people.

This video is so disappointing. I was getting the intro, I guess. It was leading into what happened earlier in the night. Here I am, ready to see this sensual slow dancing thing combination or whatchumacallits, just something to call attention to the song.


To my surprise ( sarcasm ) . . . nada. I can't pay attention to how sexy the song is, because I've had that song since last year in my player and I love it. It's a really sexy song! Which means it should have a sexy video! Am I right? This video does shizzot! She's in lingerie. Then she's in a backless dress. Who are you getting dressed for Keri? Cuz I don't see him. Then she's at the club with her Gang Green Gang . . . rolling up like hooligans (I see you Chris Brown . . .) and they are planning to get shitfaced because you see bottles and glasses upon glasses and bottles flashing everywhere on screen! We get it, you guys wanna have fun . . . but, wait. Where's the slow dancing? No? Nothing again? Then they point the dude that's been checking Keri out, la di di la di do . . . then they come together and do some "FANCY" foot work . . . then the slow dance comes along, AT THE END MIGHT I POINT OUT, but doesn't do shizzot.

( Hangs head in s h a m e )

I'm done.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Megan's got Modelling Potential!

Bitch can pose.
I knew she was born for the camera! Whether it be porn or modelling, this girl is too perdiful to be a waitress / stripper trying to support her three kids (hypothetically speaking). Work it. Megan is a Fox.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Scarlett Johansson's Album

Boy, oh my do I dislike actors who seriously out of nowhere declare that they are going to engage in the music industry. It's like watching a deer get hit by a car. SCREEEEEECH! Sometimes they don't even come across as people with good taste for music. Sometimes they actually really DON'T have good taste for music. But, let me move on before I get into it for no reason whatsoevaaa.

Scarlett J. came out with an album a good while ago, and many people deemed it shiteous. I listened to a few songs, just to be fair, and I deemed it . . . boring. Sorry Scarlett. I didn't like it that much. And her voice is something new, yeah? But it's not like I couldn't grow on it. To be honest, I didn't take the time . . . ANYWAY! She teamed up with Indie lord (IDK that's what people call him) Pete Yorn and together they created this indie-pop album titled, "Break-Up." And you know what?

I like.

Very very much.

Seriously, it's likeable. And Scarlett's voice is one of a kind. I've grown to love it ever so kindly. Because it is . . . ever so kind.

The first single which circled the internet, "Relator," was my profile song for a good few weeks. I LOVE that song. Seriously! This album is too cute. Take a listen.
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